So, i really recommend anyone doing this - grab a set of snap ring pliers.....not any set, as most snap ring pliers have tips that are orientated 90 degree's - hence to spread a snap ring....
However, a few snap ring pliers ive seen have adjustable tips that can be rotated/orientated 180degree's from one another and work very well for this power socket application.
the tabs "B" need to be pushed on together at the SAME TIME - in order to pull silver body of the power socket Forward and OUT toward you., from there you disconnect the electrical connection and the plastic fascia ring with the door will come free from the body molding.
notice how the tips of the snap ring pliers i attached can be rotated 180 from each other, slide inside the power socket and be used to spread the tabs to remove the power socket.
this worked....one of my pliers though, didnt fit, so i had to trim down the tips to work inside the small diameter of the power socket...